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And Yet.
Two words. One sacred shift. “And yet” is not loud. It does not argue with reality. It does not dismiss pain. It does not deny disappointment. “And yet” simply chooses faith anyway. It is the pause between what is happening and what you believe. It is the moment where the believer acknowledges the weight of the season but refuses to let the season define the story. Scripture is filled with “and yet” moments. Habakkuk looked at empty fields, barren trees, and lost harvests and
Tenesha Batiste
4 days ago2 min read
Covering, Not Condemning: A Call Back to Grace
In recent days, conversations around Dr. Karri’s dress have sparked something deeper than fashion or preference. What surfaced was a familiar tension among women, especially women of faith. The tension between correction and compassion. The tension between standards and grace. The tension between remembering where we come from and forgetting how we were covered on our way here. This moment deserves more than commentary. It deserves reflection. Somewhere along the way, we conf
Tenesha Batiste
Jan 32 min read
Holding Space During the Holidays
The holiday season is often wrapped in lights, music, and expectations of joy. Yet for many, this time of year carries a different weight. Grief lingers. Sickness interrupts routines. Loss, loneliness, and unanswered prayers feel heavier when the world insists on cheer. Acknowledging this reality does not make anyone less of a believer. Faith does not require constant happiness. Faith requires honesty. Scripture reminds us that even the most faithful servants of God experienc
Tenesha Batiste
Dec 24, 20252 min read
A Call to Women to Uplift & Not Silence One Another
Recently, God handed me a gentle but powerful lesson. I shared some exciting news with a woman I have known and respected for more than twenty years. I truly believed she would be proud. I expected a smile, a spark of celebration, or at least a warm acknowledgment. Instead, she brushed it aside and changed the subject without a single word of support. For a moment, I sat in silence and felt the weight of it. Then I understood. I simply had her wrong. We sometimes think we kno
Tenesha Batiste
Dec 21, 20252 min read
The Beauty of a Strong Diverse Village
There are seasons in life when you are reminded that strength rarely comes from standing alone. It rises from the people who surround you, the ones who hold space for your growth, your calling, and your humanity. My journey has taught me that a strong village is not defined by sameness. It thrives because of its beautiful diversity. Every person brings a different gift, a different lens, and a different light. I have been blessed with a village that reflects every part of my
Tenesha Batiste
Nov 16, 20252 min read
Allow People to Show Up For You!
Because strength does not mean standing alone. There is a quiet kind of strength that is often overlooked… the strength it takes to let someone in. To accept help. To allow others to show up for you when you are used to being the one who shows up for everyone else. We are taught that strength looks like independence. We are conditioned to believe that needing support makes us weak. Yet the truth is, it takes extraordinary courage to say, “I need a moment,” or “I could use a l
Tenesha Batiste
Nov 3, 20252 min read
Reaping & Sowing: The Positive Side of the Principle
“So, let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” —Galatians 6:9 (KJV) Many people hear the phrase “you reap what you sow” and immediately brace themselves for correction or consequence. It is often used as a warning about poor decisions, gossip, betrayal, or disobedience. Yet the principle of reaping and sowing was never meant to be viewed only through a negative lens. It is, in fact, one of the most hope-filled promises in Scripture.
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 25, 20252 min read
Know Your Judas From Your Peter
There comes a point in every believer’s journey where betrayal introduces itself at your table. It is never invited, but somehow it always finds a seat. Yet, the key to spiritual maturity is not in avoiding betrayal; it is in discerning who sent it and what purpose it serves. Judas and Peter both walked with Jesus. They both saw His miracles. They both loved Him in their own way. Yet their actions tell two very different stories. Judas betrayed Him out of greed. Peter denied
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 24, 20252 min read
Let Them- The Power of Quiet Awareness
Let Them — The Power of Quiet Awareness Every now and then, life will show you who people truly are — not through arguments, but through silence, distance, and behavior that speaks volumes. One day you wake up and realize that someone you once loved, trusted, and spoke highly of has been speaking differently about you. It stings. Especially when all you ever offered was respect, support, and genuine care. Still, maturity teaches you something powerful: not every betrayal dese
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 19, 20252 min read
When the Strong Friend Gets Checked On
A month or so ago, I wrote about the importance of checking on your strong friends…the ones who smile through storms, fix what is broken,...
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 9, 20252 min read
Leadership Through Connection
Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone: Leadership Through Connection This weekend, I was reminded that leadership is not only about guiding a...
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 4, 20252 min read
Pick a Side: Stop Being Lukewarm
Pick a Side: Stop Being Lukewarm There comes a time in life when neutrality is no longer noble, it is dangerous. Scripture reminds us in...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 28, 20251 min read
Check On Your Strong Friends
Check on Your Strong Friends This past week, at a meeting with my dear sisters of The Links, Incorporated, one of my sisters shared a...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 24, 20252 min read
Be You. Authentically. Always.
Be You. Authentically. Always. The first day of fall arrived, and I decided to wear a bright orange top. At first glance, it might not...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 22, 20252 min read
From Mean Girls to Mean Seniors: Breaking the Cycle
From Mean Girls to Mean Seniors: Breaking the Cycle Opening Reflection There is a troubling trend that cannot go unspoken. The same “mean...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 17, 20252 min read
The Plot Twist of Unknown Number
Every good mystery has a plot twist. What no one expects is that the unknown number on the other end of the line could be someone so...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 5, 20252 min read


Hold on to His Unchanging Hand
Since September of 2023, I have quietly been walking through one of the hardest seasons of my life. To many, it may have seemed as though...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 3, 20252 min read
“Breaking the Cycle: Talking To, Not About.”
What’s the Deal with Female Relationships? Female friendships are often celebrated for their depth, loyalty, and emotional intimacy. When...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 20, 20252 min read
Lord, Work It Out for Me!
Lord, Work It Out for Me There are moments in life when the weight feels unbearable. We plan, we prepare, and we push forward with...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 16, 20252 min read


Crab Legs, Casinos, and the Covering of Favor
🦀✨ Crab Legs, Casinos, and the Covering of Favor ✨🦀 I had been craving crab legs for a few days. So, we took a little drive to the...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 14, 20252 min read
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