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Grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk. Tenesha Chats is where real stories meet real conversations—unfiltered, inspiring, and sometimes a little sassy. From personal insights and life lessons to thought-provoking topics that spark connection, this is a space for sharing, learning, and laughing together. Whether you’re here for a quick read or a deep dive, you’ll always leave with something to think about—and maybe even a smile.
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The Beauty of a Strong Diverse Village
There are seasons in life when you are reminded that strength rarely comes from standing alone. It rises from the people who surround you, the ones who hold space for your growth, your calling, and your humanity. My journey has taught me that a strong village is not defined by sameness. It thrives because of its beautiful diversity. Every person brings a different gift, a different lens, and a different light. I have been blessed with a village that reflects every part of my
Tenesha Batiste
Nov 162 min read
Allow People to Show Up For You!
Because strength does not mean standing alone. There is a quiet kind of strength that is often overlooked… the strength it takes to let someone in. To accept help. To allow others to show up for you when you are used to being the one who shows up for everyone else. We are taught that strength looks like independence. We are conditioned to believe that needing support makes us weak. Yet the truth is, it takes extraordinary courage to say, “I need a moment,” or “I could use a l
Tenesha Batiste
Nov 32 min read
Reaping & Sowing: The Positive Side of the Principle
“So, let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” —Galatians 6:9 (KJV) Many people hear the phrase “you reap what you sow” and immediately brace themselves for correction or consequence. It is often used as a warning about poor decisions, gossip, betrayal, or disobedience. Yet the principle of reaping and sowing was never meant to be viewed only through a negative lens. It is, in fact, one of the most hope-filled promises in Scripture.
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 252 min read
Know Your Judas From Your Peter
There comes a point in every believer’s journey where betrayal introduces itself at your table. It is never invited, but somehow it always finds a seat. Yet, the key to spiritual maturity is not in avoiding betrayal; it is in discerning who sent it and what purpose it serves. Judas and Peter both walked with Jesus. They both saw His miracles. They both loved Him in their own way. Yet their actions tell two very different stories. Judas betrayed Him out of greed. Peter denied
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 242 min read
Let Them- The Power of Quiet Awareness
Let Them — The Power of Quiet Awareness Every now and then, life will show you who people truly are — not through arguments, but through silence, distance, and behavior that speaks volumes. One day you wake up and realize that someone you once loved, trusted, and spoke highly of has been speaking differently about you. It stings. Especially when all you ever offered was respect, support, and genuine care. Still, maturity teaches you something powerful: not every betrayal dese
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 192 min read
When the Strong Friend Gets Checked On
A month or so ago, I wrote about the importance of checking on your strong friends…the ones who smile through storms, fix what is broken,...
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 92 min read
Leadership Through Connection
Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone: Leadership Through Connection This weekend, I was reminded that leadership is not only about guiding a...
Tenesha Batiste
Oct 42 min read
Pick a Side: Stop Being Lukewarm
Pick a Side: Stop Being Lukewarm There comes a time in life when neutrality is no longer noble, it is dangerous. Scripture reminds us in...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 281 min read
Check On Your Strong Friends
Check on Your Strong Friends This past week, at a meeting with my dear sisters of The Links, Incorporated, one of my sisters shared a...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 242 min read
Be You. Authentically. Always.
Be You. Authentically. Always. The first day of fall arrived, and I decided to wear a bright orange top. At first glance, it might not...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 222 min read
From Mean Girls to Mean Seniors: Breaking the Cycle
From Mean Girls to Mean Seniors: Breaking the Cycle Opening Reflection There is a troubling trend that cannot go unspoken. The same “mean...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 172 min read
The Plot Twist of Unknown Number
Every good mystery has a plot twist. What no one expects is that the unknown number on the other end of the line could be someone so...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 52 min read


Hold on to His Unchanging Hand
Since September of 2023, I have quietly been walking through one of the hardest seasons of my life. To many, it may have seemed as though...
Tenesha Batiste
Sep 32 min read
“Breaking the Cycle: Talking To, Not About.”
What’s the Deal with Female Relationships? Female friendships are often celebrated for their depth, loyalty, and emotional intimacy. When...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 202 min read
Lord, Work It Out for Me!
Lord, Work It Out for Me There are moments in life when the weight feels unbearable. We plan, we prepare, and we push forward with...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 162 min read


Crab Legs, Casinos, and the Covering of Favor
🦀✨ Crab Legs, Casinos, and the Covering of Favor ✨🦀 I had been craving crab legs for a few days. So, we took a little drive to the...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 142 min read
Finding Your Tribe & Loving Them Hard
There comes a point in life when you realize that the most valuable currency you can carry is not money, influence, or status — it is...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 111 min read


Real Women Link Arms
Why is it that some women get jealous of the very people sent to help them? It is a question that continues to grieve my heart. Some of...
Tenesha Batiste
Aug 81 min read
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